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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you also into gender norms? Did you want an engagement ring? Does he pick up the bill more often? Doe he buy you flowers?

If you like gender norms traditions when they benefit you, then you have to accept ones that matter to him too. [/quote]

OP's BF: "I want you to propose to me."

OP has to say by DCUM standards: "OK."

If not, we will rightly assert she hates men.

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I'm a woman who kept my own name and we talked about getting married instead of some grandiose proposal. I think you're trying a bit too hard to prove a point that does not exist. [/quote]

"I don't want another kid."
"OK."

"I don't want to move."
"Ok."

"I don't want to visit your mother."
"OK."

"I don't want to vacation there."
"OK."

"I don't want to co-mingle checking accounts."
"OK."

Things come up in marriages. Have you simply said OK to your spouse and jointly agreed on everything over decades of marriage? That's the point. 
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