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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Working an office job is very easy. To give that up to earn $0 is foolish unless you’re independently wealthy. If you decide to earn $0, you’ll be earning $0 to clean your own house, do all laundry and chores, manage kids, be a chauffeur etc. Meanwhile your DH will act like he’s doing you a favor. A lot of the SAHM reels and pages on IG are people living in LCOL you wouldn’t want to live. If you want to live in a $600k house far out from Dallas and send kids to in-state colleges then maybe this is for you. If you’ve lived an independent life where you travel to exotic places, have a retirement account and lead business meetings you’ll find yourself in a completely different world. [/quote] I sah with my 2 children from birth to their teen years and do not regret a single day spent with them. No vacation, no house, no account balance is worth more than being with them every day. Being dcum poor isn't too bad and dh is a solid partner. When we retire, we will be just fine. The kids are on their way to launching in good circumstances. They have practical life skills, education, and a solid, secure foundation. They are turning out better than we dreamed when making the decision to sah. I reentered the workforce some time ago and I am content. [/quote]
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