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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How often do men actually end up hooking up with a woman at these places?  I would imagine that most of the women are there mainly because they enjoy being sexy/desired or they are bi-curious.  I really think it’s rather rare that these women actually enjoy sexual encounters with random dudes.   [/quote]

Why can’t the men be bi curious and also interested in being desired by men or women? [/quote]

They can. I have no doubt that a lot of dudes end up hooking up with each other at these places.  My question was how often do men actually end up hooking up with a women.  [/quote]

Really? I kind of got the picture that there was no guy-on-guy action involved. [/quote]

From what I understand of these places, most don’t allow public guy on guy behavior, but have closed doors where this could happen.  
My impression is that most of these guys aren’t really bi-sexual and would much rather hook up with a woman, but are very freaky sexually so would be willing to hook up with another dude if no better alternatives.  [/quote]

But they have to go into a secret room? How odd. [/quote]

It is odd. Swinger or 'lifestyle' culture is very heteronormative, unless it's two women. Double standard.

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