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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you are still reading. My childhood best friend and her husband had an open marriage so I learned a lot about their activities. Then, when I was a lobbyist, I would go to conferences and lobby exec and legis branches and would lobby with the same group of other lobbyists. One came out has a swinger in an open marriage (during a happy hour at a very large industry conference) to all of our little group. At the time they were in their early 40s, very well educated, financially secure but couldn't have kids so they decided to just party for the rest of their lives. I've learned about the clubs, the cruises, the renting out of resorts. I've also learned that he has a 1-drink minimum if they are going to "play" but sometimes they just go to hang out, not play, and he'll drink more than 1. Or if his wife wants to play with women, he'll sit it out. He never told me anything about boy stuff so when we were catching up over zoom during covid, I asked him. He says he'll do it to please wife but it is not his preference and the men she plays with don't really want to be with each other so she's the star of the show (a used phrase). This is not my life but I find it absolutely fascinating. So let your freak flag fly and I'm amazed that you've kept this AMA on track and respectful. Well done.[/quote]

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