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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's weird. I was a single Mom in my 20s. I didn't meet a single divorced Dad under 40. That seems very unusual. [/quote]

Most men in their 20s and 30s don't want to date single mothers.   I stayed far far away from single mothers at that age because I didn't have kids, didn't want to continue someone else's abandoned project, had options (line single women with no kids) and was too busy with work and activities that I was t about to be a father to a kid that isn't mine.

I'm in my forties and still won't date single mothers in their 20s.  My kids are either in college or about to be so my life is easy.  My kids take care of themselves and drive themselves around or they're away nine months out if the year starting their own life journey.  I will and have dated women in their late 20s to mid 30s who don't have kids so I will do that, just not long term as they have no concept of what it's like to be a parent and often can't stand when they're not the primary focus of your attention.  I usually tend to stick with women in their late 30s and very early 40s who have older kids.

I'm at a place where I'm financially stable, can retire early and travel a lot and have no debt and a good pot of money we're I can move overseas to Europe or central America and life life in a tropical paradise.  Brutal reality for most men in my position is there is very few viable partners who are not full of drama, issues with kids and their ex, not insane and most aren't super attractive.  I'm lucky in some respect as I have a steady partner but she lives a considerable distance away who I met through business trips to the area.  Hopefully it works out because most of the women in this area are not really people is consider quality partners.  As soon as my last kid is out if the house I'm out of here and I'll sell my place, collect a nice profit and can almost outright pay for another place with cash.  [/quote

I'm in my early forties, and none of my friends near my age are divorced with "older" kids.  My friends had kids between 30 and 40, so none of my friends have kids who are in college or can already drive themselves around.  You'd have to date someone in their late forties or older for that lifestyle.  It seems that when people are in their late forties, and their kids have launched, they can find like-minded partners to enjoy an early retirement lifestyle, as you've described.  Or if you don't want to find someone who is about your age and networth, I suppose anyone who is attractive and wealthy, men or women, can also find an attractive, younger, less well off partner to be a travel companion or partner on your terms if you're willing to financially support them.   [/quote]

You make the assumption that younger men want to date older women, they don't really. That's more of an exception rather than the rule. However, a successful male, even when he's older will still have a lot more options than an older woman. And for most males their net worth is usually higher[/quote]

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