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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a single guy with my own place, no debt, clean my own house and cook, go to the gym and stay fit and take care of all my kids needs.  Why the f*ck would I want to put my assets and wealth at risk again?  [/quote]

Post divorce I dated and everything went well at first. From the start I told her I would never remarry. She ignored it. Perhaps she thought I was joking and that eventually I would change my mind she was late 30s desperate to get married and have children. She kept saying I'll eventually change my mind. All this time she could have dumped me for someone who was never married and has no kids. My understanding is that there are lot of those men in their 30s. Instead she wanted the man who couldnt offer what she wanted.

Similarly to you, I was not going to sign up about having to take a second look at my assets to see how my new wife and future family was going to fit in knowing full well I have a son going to college in 2 years.

This is not unique to women. It's a genderless issue IMO. People don't go for people you know you can't have. If a man or woman tells you they will never remarry don't waste your time thinking they will change their mind because somehow you are special or their new found love. And if they change their mind, you will have to watch our for resentments down the line.

Anyways there aren't many single people begging to marry divorced people anyways. But for those who do please reevaluate your options.[/quote]

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