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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think it’s the playing up or down or on grade that is the issue. It’s the uncertainty. For kids already in HS, the chance to play college will be made or broken by their team and coach. So those who are comfy now might have that broken up and tested, but no one knows what that will look like. My kid is late August and has no desire to play with kids in a younger school grade, even thought it’s club soccer and not school. [b]It’s a huge mindset shift and is causing stress.[/b] Clubs need to address this head on. [/quote]

Yes, it is a fixed mindset.  Research Carol Dweck and get your child the assistance she needs.  Sports are supposed to develop a growth mindset.  Something is a amiss in the equation.  Better to solve it now than have it linger on through adulthood.

We can lock this thread and refer anybody with continuous rejection to an inevitable change to BetterHelp to work though their issues. Seriously, acceptance is a life-changing gift and you won’t learn that on an anonymous forum.[/quote]

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