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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I’ve done some reflecting on this. DH and I grew up lower to middle class. We bought our house years ago and family, neighbors and friends are all middle - upper middle class. I will admit here that I have some prejudices about rich people, despite being one now myself. I don’t trust that I could raise kids well who understand how wealthy they are. I do not want to get into circles where I or my kids feel pressure to keep up with the Joneses. So, we don’t go out of our way to save money, but because our house is so cheap and cars aren’t that exciting, we do end up saving a lot. We go on nice vacations, and I buy lots of clothes but just at places I’ve always shopped. For reasons above, plus possibility of getting robbed or being a target for a scam, I don’t want to buy watches or purses that cost thousands. [/quote] I’m 100% like you! I had some real rollercoaster experiences growing up as wealthy-adjacent (UMC) and then not wealthy at all (MC), and now back to UMC, maybe could someday be wealthy. But my priority is that my children have a good education and don’t feel this horrible pressure to keep up with the Joneses. That being said, I hope I’m making the right choices. But no, not flashy, at all, drive a dented minivan much of the time, but do have some nice jewelry. Try to wear decent clothes but tbh love the value of Costco clothes, so my soul is not flashy. [/quote]
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