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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She should look at liberal arts colleges that give merit aid. You might be able to get close to what the state schools cost and she could have smaller classes.  [/quote]

We tried this route with our older kids, and they didn't get enough merit aid (even at much lower-ranked schools) to fill the gap. Our older kids went to state colleges purely because of price.

If anyone has a gifted kid who was/is happy at a lower-ranked school, please post. Thanks! [/quote]

I was CTY eligible and a female NMF.  I tried PSU's Honors College.  PSU profs and classes were good but the social life was lacking in intellectual heft.  I transferred to Pitt and took Honors and regular classes.  I loved Pitt.  My grad degree is an MBA from Michigan.  Also loved Michigan.  So there are 3 flagships where I succeeded academically and met learning goals.

UMD is getting good reviews on DCUM these days.  I recently met a very happy journalism major from our non-MD high school who was top of her college.  Nothing but positivity.  Sounds to me to be like my Pitt experience.  Pitt was considered more gritty and humble 30 years ago.  But there's nothing wrong with being gritty and humble. UMD is also in a bigger metro area with a wider range of employers.

I think your daughter will thrive at a flagship if she selects smaller classes, reading-intensive classes, and meets/communicates actively with professors.  Look for smaller humanities classes, freshman seminars, honors classes, etc.  The peers don't even matter if the professors are good and care about your questions and your learning.  If they are quiet, more focus on you.  My son observed this in a freshman seminar at his flagship.  Now he has a professor who is interested in him doing research for her.  Because he was the star student.

My family is big school friendly.  The real world is a big place.  Better to get used to it.[/quote]

Why are you randomly reviving a thread that is 4 years old? OP has likely graduated college or is a senior in college by now. You always post about transferring to Pitt and going to Michigan. We know your story, PP. We know. [/quote]

PP. I did not revive the thread, although it looks that way. I don't search for threads. I only read Recent Topics.  I assume a post above mine got deleted.  I wouldn't have answered if I realized it was a zombie thread.

Furthermore, I'm sure people recognize me as I also recognize others who repeat their stories across posts.  That may be a flaw to you, but perhaps you should feel comforted that I don't have 10 different fake personas that I write from.  I do post on the threads that relate to schools I attended, flagships, honors colleges, etc.  That is why you recognize me.

Regarding transferring, I do especially like to comment on that topic.  As the great Despair.com poster says: "Mistakes: It could be that the purpose of your life is only to serve as a warning to others".

https://despair.com/products/mistakes?_pos=1&_sid=4869ea759&_ss=r&variant=2457302467[/quote]

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