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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, not sure where the vasectomy comment came from. They are both our biological children. Also, I have considered divorce but I would not want him to be alone with the kids 50% of the time, so that’s not an option. In the meantime I think therapy and possibly medication are good ideas. I know he had an extremely low opinion of using antidepressants long term (he thinks people are using them to avoid working on their issues), so we’ll see if he agrees to it.

Also, I don’t think he would actually hurt the toddler but he might yell and just generally be scary and then get overwhelmed / upset. Then when I got home I’d have to calm both him down and the toddler down. This is generally the way our parenting dynamic works now and it’s so upsetting.

I had no idea he would be like this with his kids. I married him because he was a kind person who goes out of his way to be there for his friends and family. But he had an angry dad growing up who turned out to be depressed and is doing better now that he’s medicated, and so here we are, family history repeating I guess.[/quote]

I hear you OP. Similar situation here. DH is a generally very calm person, never lost his temper with me, but once DD was born it was a totally different story. It's been really rough and I am glad we can't have more kids. But it has gotten better after I called out DH's behavior as abusive in a couple of the worst moments and let it be known I will not stand for it. Literally by putting my body between him and the child. When he saw that, I think it really shook him. 
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