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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Many men have vented about their wives on these boards and have not gotten attacked any more than this OP has. OP described a humorous, annoying, careless and lazy behavior by her DH. She communicated directly to him about that behavior, and he declined to address it. You are offended that she has anonymously relayed that story on these boards. Why does that trigger you so much?[/quote]

She did not call his behavior in this one circumstance lazy and careless; she used the story to support the idea that he is lazy and careless. And then she invited others to help her by posting stories of their husbands being lazy and careless. Her point is that her husband is lazy and careless and that you (gentle reader) should affirm that this is a common condition in men by posting similar stories.

Trying to say that someone is triggered is glossing over the inherent bigotry of this thread. Bigotry bothers me. It should bother you.
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Are you for real? How about the inherent misogyny of all the replies saying that OP is the problem rather than OP's husband being the problem. Not one of you "venting is bad behavior" posters have said that her husband should look at his actions and consider his communication and think about his role in all of this. Why is that?[/quote]

No poster has excused a DH’s behavior. The lazy DHs are not here. Why would we say anything to them? We are addressing the person who is here.[/quote]

You are addressing multiple people none of whom are being persuaded that we should just stfu and reflect on how we are terrible wives who are hurting our children by venting on an anonymous message board. [/quote]

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