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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a 54 year old male I enjoy sex, but I’m far more interested in women who are smart, fun, confident, [b]financially secure and not carrying a lot of baggage. [/b][/quote]

You certainly won’t find many 50+ women on the apps that meet that description.[/quote]

If you find a woman that fit this description, you would have to be really committed to her, work on integrating each other in your lives, busy schedules etc. Men claim they want financially independent women, but in reality few men are able to offer what it takes to be with a wealthy woman[/quote]

Very few women in their 50s are "wealthy" or "financially independent". Much more likely she's a financial mess barely hanging on by her fingernails. And if you're wealthy and financially independent, what does she have to offer you, really? A negative thing (she won't be a financial burden) but physically you're better off shopping younger.[/quote]

If you screen the apps, most attractive  women in their 30s state “open to kids”. Not sure if physical aspects outweigh  the fact you would be restarting your life in your 50s, and even higher financial responsibilities for the new family.
There are some attractive women in 40-50s age group that are totally fine financially it’s not like we live in 1960s when women didnt work.
[b]The problem is that an average man on the apps has nothing to offer to a woman who makes 500k+[/b], for example. I make this money as a woman, and my NW is several million. I only date men who have similar lifestyle and background. Even dated uber rich men. One billionaire, several men who made $2-5m a year etc. Its easy to meet them in my circle and even on the apps. Wealthy people speak the “same” language, enjoy similar hobbies and life experiences, and they pick you by code words in profiles and photo hints at lifestyle.

But I’ve come to a conclusion that you can’t find love when you are looking for money. Everyone rich is extremely busy, travel a lot, have little disposable time etc. Wealthy women stay single very often and never remarry. [/quote]

Not totally true, but… I’m a high earning woman (50, take care of myself and am in great shape but don’t kid myself that I look 30) and I find many men aren’t interested once they figure out I’m wealthy. I don’t know if it’s intimidation or that they realize lose some power over me.  [/quote]

Maybe you're actually just annoying.

One man is like this, it's a him problem. "Many" men are like this, it's a you problem.[/quote]

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