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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was the kid in  this scenario. Just tell dc the truth. And don’t rely on your spouse to do that. One of my worse memories was my dad like trying to explain that their sex life was bad.  No child adult or otherwise wants to hear jack shit about their parents’ sex lives. [/quote] I don't know if you read that DH took it upon himself to inform dc right away. We didn't have a discussion about it. He just did it. DC said dh told him that he had not been happy for a very long time. I asked if dh told him anything else, which he did not other than "we love you and we're here for you"  so I told dc that dh has a girlfriend and left it at that. I'm so sorry your dad brought up sex with you. That's so so bad. I'm not going to be that parent. Ugh. [/quote]

I was in your DH’s position a year ago. I had felt dead for years, [b]getting accolades all the time at work but my SAHM DW criticizing my efforts at home[/b]. Finally I met someone better and told her that I was divorcing her.

But she couldn’t look at all she did to ruin our marriage. We told the kids we were divorcing and cried and whatever. But once she saw pictures my girlfriend and I took when she was my friend and [b]I took her to Europe for a conference[/b], she went off the deep end. So I had to introduce my kids to my girlfriend so they could see [b]she’s really cool and at her age understands my kids a lot better than my ex.[/b]

Now my ex refuses to build and maintain a friendship with us. It’s so selfish and immature. You’re supposed to make things as smooth as possible for the kids’ sake, but yet again my ex’s selfishness rules.[/quote]

I am genuinely hoping you are a troll, but if not I am team ex DW.

By your own admission you were focused on all your accolades at work while, ignored your spouse when she needed more help at home, and then went off galavanting on a work trip with your younger AP who is apparently close enough in age to your children to relate to them? You are a gross cliche. Pathetic.[/quote]

Girl.

This guy posts frequently.

He has been told off dozens of times, I’m sure it brings him pleasure somehow that the women that remind him of his ex hate him.

Please stop feeding the trolls, you guys![/quote]

My read is he's looking for validation anywhere he can get it, and still so pleased he found a cute younger gf at work.  Note: it's possible to have a fantastic work trip to a foreign place without company.

Ironically, his exwife is probably living the [b]better[/b] life because she's grey rocked her unsympathetic, disloyal, self-centered baby daddy.  If he was 100% sure of his good fortune he wouldn't be complaining about the things he's complaining about.[/quote]

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