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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are both half Korean, and Korean culture is a big part of our family life. DS12 has a friend who is not Asian and who, in the past, has made some mildly racist comments in front of me, but not at me. For example, at a sleepover they had a few weeks ago, I had to order pizza because he is "not a fan of Asian food." This kind of thing is annoying but I usually let it slide.

Yesterday, I was dropping off this friend after a playdate at our house when he asked if they could have another playdate on a specific date next weekend. I said no, sorry, DS has a violin recital and then tutoring (yes, I know these are both stereotypically Asian things). This friend, now addressing DS, says, "Your mom is such a tiger mom, bro." (or something similar to that).

This really set me off, although I didn't say anything in the moment. I really want to say something to this kid's mother, but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. I'm sick of this kid's casual racism, even if it's unintentional.

Sigh![/quote]

I’d prioritize other friends over this one.  I’d put a lot more effort and host fun outings and sports games etc to start pulling in other friends.  Clearly this kid’s parents are making comments about you and it’s really rude.  If he’s really a friend he wouldn’t be putting you down like that.  Time to help look for better people to host![/quote]

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