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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Asked him to wear a condom and he blocked me. Never heard from him again. Two guys in late 50s wouldn’t wear one.

Guy question: please explain why a guy in 50s would be nervous about performance. I understand in 20s but in 50s I am 100% confident and free. We’ve had a lifetime of experience. I have never felt less inhibited. So surprised that a man would be nervous. What’s there even to perform ? It’s natural. So frustrating as a woman.[/quote]

A man is always nervous the first time with a woman, duh.

In your 50s it is compounded by fear of ED.

Plus let's say the guy has been divorced for a few years and in the final years of marriage sex was terrible / infrequent / non-existent, so it could be over 5 years since he had enjoyable, satisfying sex with an enthusiastic partner.[/quote]

We have been judged our entire lives based on our ability to do things. We get judged on our penis size. We get judged on our ability to help a woman achieve orgasm. We get compared to other men. Then people are surprised that when we reach the point in life when we are no longer up to the task we won't be nervous.[/quote]

Yes, because women are NEVER JUDGED on anything. LOL.[/quote]

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