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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex![/quote]

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet. [/quote]

Just happily passing around BV and UTIs huh 😒[/quote]

Please educate yourself:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/health-and-wellness/urinary-tract-infections-utis

https://www.cdc.gov/bacterial-vaginosis/about/index.html

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E.coli causes UTI so if he goes to a...s often with different women it will pass UTI to partners if he doesn't use condom during vaginal intercourse.[/quote]

I agree. [/quote]

This particular situation can cause an infection because literal sh*t can get in your vagina. How could you possibly categorize this as an STI? You could have the exact same outcome in your own bathroom. That being said, actual medicinal journals and medical professionals say it’s not an STI. So just because your opinion is different doesn’t change the fact that it’s not. Absolutely you are entitled to believe what you want but I’ll believe NIH and the CDC. [/quote]

Isn’t PP’s whole point about wearing condoms and getting STI tested? Condoms would prevent this.[/quote]

Of course a condom would prevent this. My point is that Pp is going on about how UTIs and BV are STIs which they are not. And she used the example of this as a reason why a UTI is an STD-I was just responding saying what I said because it was a ridiculous comparison. That’s all. [/quote]

Ok but you realize that this is one of those fights you win in theory only. Not clear at all why you’d keep fighting on whether or not this qualifies as a UTI when  condom usage until you are exclusive and tested would prevent a whole host of trouble. [/quote]

STI not UTI.[/quote]

My point is that it wouldn’t matter if you were exclusive-you could still get a UTI or BV because they are Not STIs! A woman can get these things for so many reasons. Men don’t get tested for UTIs on an std panel because it’s not an std and the UTI itself is not going to spread. And last time I checked a man can’t get BV because of the absence of an actual vagina so that’s not gonna be tested either. Because BV is caused by a woman’s personal reaction to semen-and has nothing to do with the man having any kind of infection. [/quote]

Well if my "personal reaction" to your semen is to get BV, you're going to be wearing a condom in any event. [/quote]

Sure. Have him wear a condom and you get on some anxiety medication asap.

Regardless, you should really look stuff up before you make yourself look stupid. [/quote]

Charming [/quote]

I would love to be a fly on the wall when this woman eventually tells some man that she can’t see him anymore because he must be cheating on her because he “gave her” a UTI or BV. [/quote]

That’s not what anybody said. [/quote]

It’s actually exactly what she said. “You are just going around spreading UTIs and BV” was her exact comment to someone. She thinks it’s an STI and that the man is getting these from women and spreading it to others. So yeah-that is exactly what she said.[/quote]

She already clarified what she meant by that. You just need to look in the chain you posted.[/quote]

No, she didn’t. She stood her ground and refused to believe that they weren’t STI’s even with actual factual information. And you said “that’s not what anybody said” and actually it was so forgive me if I don’t think your reading comprehension is up to par. [/quote]

I directed you up thread. Someone else said “that’s not what anybody said.”  Multiple people disagree with you. How do people think only one person on the internet disagrees with them.[/quote]

Multiple people disagree that BV and UTIs are not STIs? What is wrong with the education of you people? Do a google search. Look on the CDC website or NIH or do you also disagree with them on this issue? UTIs and BV are not STIs-those are facts not an opinion to be disagreed with. [/quote]

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