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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I moved in without a ring but [b]we had an understanding that we were getting engaged within the next few months[/b]. My husband did want to live together before we got engaged and I agree with the posters here who think it’s unnecessary. I’m lucky it worked out but we’d been dating for nearly two years at that point and I don’t think there was much else he could have possibly learned about me by officially living together for a few months.[/quote] How is this different from being engaged knowing you might call it off? As someone who got the full proposal-with-ring deal 30ish years ago, I do not understand The Youths' fetishization of the various steps in becoming a married couple. "Engaged" just means you're planning to get married. You're not "about to be engaged" or "in the process of getting engaged" if you know you're getting married. For all practical purposes, you're engaged. [/quote]
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