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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"She has called my a dozen times and left horribly unkind VMs accusing me of 'sabotaging' her marriage. I replied with a text once stating take it up with Dave and do not contact me again. Then I blocked her."

Why is the wife saying OP is sabotaging her marriage? Just because it happened to be your post both of them were fighting on? What a misplaced reaction. Maybe she should talk to her shitty husband...[/quote]

[b]Well, if it's all the truth then it's fair.[/b] This group loves misplaced reactions. Nobody has any room to judge another here.[/quote]
I'm not sure I understand the bolded. Which part is fair? That wife is blaming OP for the destruction of her marriage?[/quote]

Yep. Airing the private business in public is beyond the pale. OP got what she deserved because of how her husband went about it. He showed zero compassion for the wife, an innocent party. What a douche canoe.[/quote]
But OP wasn't involved in that at all. Except that she posted the original picture that Dave decided to d*ck out on. I don't see how it's appropriate that the wife is blaming OP. She had nothing to do with it.

Why aren't we blaming the person who did the cheating and broke up the family? OP is a nobody in this situation. [/quote]

Because OPs husband involved the whole family, publicly. So now everyone is involved. It didn't have to be that way, if you just wanted Dave to come clean. But, vindictive DH went for the jugular. And it all started due to OPs post and an off color joke. I thought we had already decided all the people involved were terrible people? OPs husband and Dave are two a-holes who found each other in life. Who can be surprised?[/quote]
So instead of being mad at the person who cheated on her, she blames OP? I just don't get it. I'm not OP (and I suspect they may be a troll), but it makes 0 sense that the wife is blaming OP when she has done absolutely nothing in this scenario. [/quote]

You're delusional if you think the wife didn't have words with her DH. She can be angry at more than one person at a time.[/quote]
Are you not reading my post? I'm not saying anything about the DH. I'm talking about OP. Who is not DH and who is not Dave. [/quote]
Or maybe I misunderstood, and you are talking about wifes DH, aka Dave? I hope she did. But I still dont understand why you'd be mad at OP, literally a random third party not involved. And yet everyone is yelling at me talking about compassion? Right. [/quote]

It her social media page. She allowed it and probably cheered her husband on. [/quote]
So if people get into a fight on DCUM we all blame Jeff? I don't think that's how it works. [/quote]

People fight, posts get reported and deleted. It's not a free for all. You do understand this is moderated right? OP didn't moderate and she should have. Like here.[/quote]
So it's OPs fault for not moderating the adult males fighting? And that means she is "sabotaging" her friends marriage?

No. She just doesn't want to blame her husband and would rather blame anyone else. Like people on here apparently. [/quote]

Normal people would delete that mess ASAP. But no, it hung out there for awhile and even the wife saw it. Some friend OP is![/quote]
She may not have seen it right away. Not all of us are addicted to facebook and on 24/7. Even if it was deleted after 5 mins someone could have easily screenshot it and shared it around.

Either way, I think it's ridiculous that wife is blaming OP simply because it was her post this all went down on. She needs to focus on her shitty cheating husband. He is the only one to blame. He is the only one sabotaging the marriage. No one else can sabotage it if the two parties are on the same page. Dave was not. [/quote]

Right, she probably didn't see it right away. It was probably there for a long while. But why not kick someone when she's down, right? All b/c her husband made a bad joke.[/quote]

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