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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know I would not do well as a SAHM and that life is not for me.

When I was younger I thought that if I ever did want to stay home, it would be fine.

As I have gotten older I see it as such a huge risk that I would never take.  It surprises me that I feel this way, but I have seen so many marriages go to hell seemingly out of nowhere, so you CANNOT lose your ability to support yourself.  As other posters have noted, it fundamentally changes the power dynamic of the marriage to have only one breadwinner. [/quote]

I was doing fine working and doing kid stuff so never considered it, even when  laid off once. 
The closer I got to SAHM was during Covid when I ran Mom School from 8am-noon. And we lived out at the lake both summers, worked remotely. 
I have to say, my nanny, spouse, kids and husband got VERY spoiled being told when to get ready and what to do. [/quote]

I don’t even understand this. You told them what to do? Why? And why would that ‘spoil’ them. They surely hated it [/quote]

Ie 4pm get ready for soccer and leave at 4:10.

Alexa can say it
I can say it
Nanny can say it
Dad can say it but doesn’t care
Kid can say it[/quote]

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