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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would she get? He dropped her the minute I discovered it and has been completely no contact, doing everything he can to show remorse, work on marriage, etc.  this is for me… [/quote]

You would be giving her great satisfaction. It would show all is not well in your home or with you.

Please talk to a therapist instead.

There is no way you will not regret reaching out to her.

Stick to the high road.

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My therapist recommended it. (No OP)[/quote]

No she didn't [/quote]

Yes she did. Not at first, after much discussion.

I’m not afraid of conflict and I don’t like to leave anything on the table so we decided together, for me, it was the right move.[/quote]

+1 the reason they don’t advice it is for their own malpractice insurance/cover your @ss.  If something violent comes out of it they don’t want culpability.

I did it and then told therapist.  Therapist actually thought it was fantastic after the fact and saw how it provided closure, not that he would have advised it if I asked first.[/quote]

No, she didn't.  A qualified therapist wouldn't recommend it.  All she told you was that she couldn't stop you and then said you did what you had to do. She did not recoomend it or commend you for it . Stop your bullshit.[/quote]

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