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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]3 is such a fun age! She could work out alongside you, you could bring her in a jogging stroller. Dang my 3 year olds helped me clean, bake, weed or just farted around the house on their own. Such a fun age.

OP, is your DD kind of high maintenance or mellow? Lunch could be cheerios, frozen fruit in yogurt, hard boiled eggs... nap is throw them in their crib with 40 board books and a white noise machine...

If DD has fussier needs, I could see that alone time being precious but Id rather build more positive time together vs avoiding her[/quote]

But it’s SO HARD! How could she survive with only 4.5 hours of alone time rather than 5! And how could she bear that grave injustice of her misogynistic husband getting 5.5 hours of alone time to her 4.5 on that one day! OP is a boss lady who won’t let anyone walk all over her and make her spend time with her child for an extra 30 minutes, no way would she suffer that indignity.[/quote]

But it’s SO HARD! How can he be expected to feed his own child lunch and put her down for a nap, as he agreed to do, because he’s TIRED?![/quote]

Yes, of course, they both obviously need to stop whining about how hard it is to take care of one three year old. They clearly don’t like spending time with their child (or each other) if they are engaging in this tit for tat bean counting behavior where they are treating her like a burden to pass off on the other. My god, they each still get a good half a day to themselves…that is pretty unheard of among my circles. And the next day they spend together, where 2 adults to one child is really not that hard. These people need some resilience.[/quote]

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