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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Nope. It takes a lot of maturity and self understanding to navigate non-monogamy responsibly. IME, the majority of people I’ve known who crow that they are doing non-monogamy “responsibly” are actually very clearly doing that within a relationship where it’s pretty obvious the person with whom they’re “negotiating non-monogamy” with isn‘t happy but just doesn’t have enough power to say no or to be able negotiate for their needs. Color me not impressed with that kind of “consent”.[/quote] I've met and dated a handful of ENM people over the last couple years. Very few appeared to navigate it well. Are any of them able to navigate it well for a sustainable period of time? I'll never know. I'm leaving the two "ENM" relationships I'm in and I'm done. I'm not saying I'll never try it again, but I won't have the high hopes I did. [/quote]
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