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[quote=Anonymous]This is my life. My husband took the job. Double the commute; double the work; lateral pay. I told him not to. He took it. 17 years ago. Lessons learned: he loves the job, probably more than he loves me. He's focused more on that job that he has on me or DD. DD is 17. She was 6 months old when he took the job. Over the years I cried, demanded, pleaded. None of it worked. It took everything in him to do this job. I had a "lesser" job than I was capable of because one of us had too be available and raise the kid and run the life right? He took the job. He made his choice. I should have kept my mouth shut after he took it and lived my life and hired help. I didn't. I do think it destroyed us. Are we still together? Yes. Happily? No. I think my complaining hurt us as much as him giving all to the job. We both contributed. [/quote]
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