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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always say sorry when I hear someone is getting divorced. It's a period in your life that sucks. So sorry that you're going through it.

If you are insecure about people feeling bad that you are going through a non-ideal time, I don't know what to tell you. No one is going to say, "great job" when they hear about a divorce. [/quote]

Nobody is insecure about it. People are just surprised that obtuse people like you exist.[/quote]

There is no better response to "I'm getting divorced" other than "sorry to hear that". 
Sorry, guess you're stuck with it. [/quote]

Yes there is and many options have been explained.

Just like you should not say to every senior in HS, where are you going to college next year because most aren’t. You should say
What are your plans next year.

It’s basic human courtesy.[/quote]

It’s also basic human courtesy not to try to gaslight or manipulate people. You didn’t have to get married; you chose to. Marriage is literally a vow to stay together for life. That’s what you intended—or at least what you pretended to intend in front of either a legal or spiritual authority (if you lied, that’s on you). Your marriage failed. What you said you wanted in front of a legal or spiritual authority did not happen. We’re sorry. We are sorry that your marriage failed, and whatever painful or untenable circumstances that led to your divorce.

You can accept it or not, but it is and always will be socially acceptable to say you’re sorry to hear of a failed marriage.[/quote]

Okay crazy gaslight person nobody’s talking to you anymore you are too far gone.

Legal/spiritual authority? Lol, they need to do a reality TV show and put you in it.[/quote]

Please explain to me how one gets married without a legal authority (like a judge) or a spiritual authority (like a priest, pastor, rabbi, or even your friend Mike who got his Universal Church ordination, but still had to get that cleared with the state where the marriage certificate was issued). Go on, I’ll wait. Tell me how a legal marriage happens without a legal or spiritual authority presiding. I will wait.[/quote]

They are a legal person or religious person they have no authority over me.[/quote]

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