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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

It sounds like you have the option to do what is best for you and your children because you aren't limited by financial concerns.  I don't think it's best for your children in the long run for you to stay in this marriage, even though you say he is a good father. It's hard to imagine a scenario whereby they don't eventually figure this out for themselves, without it causing some emotional harm to them.

But what about you, as a woman? You deserve so much better than what you have now with this man who is masquerading as your husband. It might be hard for you to imagine at the moment, but there is a man out there who would treat you the way you deserve, be devoted to you, and who would only want you to be happy.

Best wishes for you and your children as you figure out what is the best resolution to this terrible situation.[/quote]

All you idiots who are promising her a rosy future with an even more ideal mate than her lifeline partner and father of her children are leading her down the garden path. OP is pretty level headed and already said herself she doubts she can do better than him. Does she “deserve” someone who didn’t do this? Of course. But that’s no guarantee she will get it as the divorced mother of two working to support three people single handedly and at an age when the best men are long since locked down. Why on earth would she do better than her DH in middle age with two kids in tow? What she deserves has nothing to do with what is left for umber if she leaves him. Plus the broken family. You women are idiots.[/quote]

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