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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Haha, that was my post, in the other thread.

I didn’t know my DH would make a lot of money. I wasn’t that cynical or jaded and I had little understanding of how the world worked anyway. Honestly, back then I thought 200k was a lot of money  :lol: But what I did know was that he was a great catch in the traditional sense: very smart, very hardworking, ambitious, driven, yet also humble and down to earth. I also knew he was really nice, kind, and cute (and tall! I wanted someone who was at least 6’0) but he didn’t know he was cute. He was shy around girls and I think he got friend zoned by a couple crushes. He only had one serious girlfriend before me.

Funny thing is, once I started dating him, at least 3 girls that I know of tried to get with him (and his ex tried to come back!) but he was loyal to me by then. Fwiw, I’ve posted about him before and been told that he’s a “unicorn husband” in that he makes a lot of money and yet is still very present in our home. He does all the grocery shopping and cooking, he’s extremely handy around the house, he helps our kids study, he takes them to birthday parties, he buys gifts for his side of the family and manages his own relationships with them - all that shit that women usually complain about. We don’t have any of those housework/mental load problems. He’s definitely a much better partner to me than I am to him. I’m not sure what he sees in me, tbh. But he’s an adoring husband who tells me he loves me all the time, still buys me flowers and thoughtful gifts, arranges for romantic getaway weekends, etc.

I do think you have to get these types of guys young.[/quote]

If you were feeling as secure as you claim, you wouldn't be on this forum. Protest all you like. [/quote]
DP. This is stupid. Only unhappy and miserable people get to post on relationship forums? Weird flex, but okay?[/quote]

The weird flex is coming onto a forum where people discuss relationship issues to assure everyone how happy you are. That's the weird flex. [/quote]

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