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[quote=Anonymous]Not sure I'd call it a healthy family dynamic but otherwise agree with PP. Esp if DH is not super into being around kids and prefers adult company and socializing. But, OP, you may have resentment. He is trying to avoid that by being passive aggressive in trying to get you to change. There is something in you that makes you unrealistic about people, about job requirements and boundaries, etc. When you have the time, something to explore in therapy. As is the dynamic in the family, I'd suggest family therapy for that rather than couples counseling. Still don't think the marriage will hold if OP becomes ill, etc. The way he is relating to the kids and using her love for the kids to manipulate OP rather than both having frank and realistic discussions is troubling.This is the kind of guy who cheats to reclaim a bit of that prior single guy liking a lot of female attention lifestyle. Be realistic about THAT OP. [/quote]
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