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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DP. I’m not OP, but I recognize her from previous posts (details like the grand piano gift, real estate money, etc.).

Some of this is just a lost in translation type thing. Eastern Europeans are matter of fact and pragmatic. America is the land of the rom com, Eastern Europe is the land of communism. If people ask how are you there they do not expect you to say fine. In fact, something would be wrong if you went around saying that all the time. OP is just being upfront with what she wants. She would get married again if her lifestyle would improve. Otherwise not.

OP, American men are romantic pragmatists. You already are 90% of the way there in terms of ticking actual boxes. Now you just need the romance part. Or marry a Jewish American guy. Some would be closer culturally to you.[/quote]

Op here.  I am going to leave this thread, too much personal detail already spilled. Funny thing, one NY Jewish mom I know (generational wealth), really wants her 37 yo son to marry me. He’s wealthy but a mess, a big baby at his age, doesn’t know what he wants etc. She keeps inviting me to stay at her Manhattan apartment.  She thinks he needs a “mom” type older wife who would bring some order and will take care of finances while she’s ailing. I feel very uncomfortable to decline yet another year. Hope I can still find the romance! [/quote]

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