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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a guy who would satisfy OP's criteria (more than, actually), and I would not be interested in the least. I have more than enough money to entertain myself, so I would rather have the company of someone more charming. I assume that was the case with OP's husband as well. If she couldn't hold onto one rich guy, why would she hold onto another?

Also, most rich guys aren't too impressed with a mid-level GS who happened into a lot of money through divorce. Kind of gives me the willies.[/quote]

OP here: I could have still held on to my exH. I was the one who filed for divorce. He was just fine living his way while being comfortably married and having things done for him. Very convenient to have one life here and a second “work wife”. Just wasn’t for me it was affecting my well being having different women involved in my marriage [/quote]

I’m a woman but it’s pretty obvious why he was cheating. He probably didn’t feel loved and probably felt that you were with him for money. [/quote]

Maybe he was with me for money, didn’t you think other way around ? He didn’t “leave” either. He was already divorced once (our marriage was second for him and first for me), and he cheated on his first wife as well. So no, men who don’t cheat just don’t cheat. Even when the wives are fat and angry. His AP was his married subordinate and slept with him for hefty consulting contracts he gave her through his job. I filed for divorce when it was discovered. That’s the story and it was far from being a purely romantic arrangement for his AP.

I don’t have a “wealth” requirement: I have income requirement. Assets and income are two different things. [/quote]

It doesn’t matter he was still cheating on you, which means he didn’t like you very much. I can see why.

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