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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We just live in a very different community and culture than most of you. Most of our friends send their kids to summer camp for 2 weeks a summer at age 7, most families go away childless for a week, grandparents are involved in many families lives... I just can’t relate to a lot of what is being said here.

The child’s grandmother is very close to my children and involved in their life. It’s good for kids to spend time with grandparents. Don’t take something good and make it into something evil. [/quote]

Yes, healthy and confident and comfortable grandparents are excellent caregivers. So are camp counselors, youth group trip leaders, etc. No one is saying kids should be with their parents at all times.

What we ARE saying is that if any caregiver—a grandparent, an aunt, a cousin, a camp counselor—express inability to care for a child at any time for any reason, you listen and you make other arrangements.

Argue with that. Go on, argue with that. I’d love to hear it.[/quote]
I hope your nanny backs out on you last minute because now she’s uncomfortable. When nothing has changed in the agreement. And I hope it costs you lots of money in lost wages.  I’m sure you’ll smile and say “oh a caregiver can back out at any time if they feel unable to care for the child”. [/quote]

SMH. You are a nasty person. [/quote]
Nope. The nasty people are the ones attacking OP. It was a simple turn if the tables. There is NO WAY all the people posting here wouldn’t be upset to be without childcare on short notice. [/quote]

OP needs to stop with the sock puppeting.  Really happy that MIL backed out of this arrangement.

- A DIL[/quote]
Not OP. Just a reasonable person. You can ask Jeff if you’d like [/quote]

Thank you. Exactly. I don't think OP is sock-puppeting at all. I think posters who are desperate in criticizing and demonizing the OP resort to calling "sock puppet" when they don't receive the contrite change of mind that they demand of OP. So then they also resort to meaner and cruder responses. Ignore the all OP. You are not in the wrong. [/quote]

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