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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes they are everywhere. Just do your best to focus on other areas as best you can, and be friendly to all.

(And yes, it sucks. I'm frequently the one on the outside, despite being involved in lots of activities with all of them.) [/quote]

OP here - this is me. I know them, our kids are friends, I just don't live in the cool neighborhood, so I am not one of them, nor will I ever be.[/quote]

15:29 here - I actually live in the "cool" neighborhood and am still excluded. I saw on FB that the neighborhood moms hosted a baby shower for another neighborhood mom. Yep, not invited and didn't know about it - despite knowing most everyone. Yes, it sucks. [/quote]

Honest question -- why do you care? Why does this suck? If anything, it tells you who your friends are -- and it's none of these women. Go enjoy life with your real friends, and stop worrying about these neighborhood moms.[/quote]

PP can still feel hurt by the exclusion.[/quote]

Then get therapy.  That isn't anyone's problem.  You are an adult. [/quote]

I think the person who needs therapy is the one who thinks that we're not allowed to have feelings.

[b]It's perfectly valid for OP and baby shower PP to feel sad about being left out of something that looks fun. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. If your kid hears about a birthday party that they weren't invited to you, do you say something like "I'm sorry, it sounds like that hurts your feelings" to empathize with them, or do you say "suck it up, buttercup, that's life. go see a therapist"?[/b][/quote]

Ok so have feelings.  But if this is bothering you enough that you need to post about about and go on and on then that is over the top.  Clearly you can't move past it and without help and it is on your mind frequently and has been for years.  Therapy.[/quote]

You're replying to me and I only posted once (bolded) in this whole thread, so I'm not going on and on.[/quote]

Not only is the "therapy" PP emotionally stunted, he/she is too stupid to grasp how anonymous forums work.  I'm always amazed by the dunces who think they're talking to the same person across so many posts.  [/quote]

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