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Reply to "I was so naive re marriage, career and kids "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP I just divorced someone like your husband who after 15 years decided to seek validation outside the marriage. I simplified his life as much as possible and he wasn't even the default parent and still it didn't work partly because it wasn't simple enough. He needed a very simple life almost as if he wasn't married and no planning, no extras. Just basic routine each day. Either lower your standards or simplify his life and be ok with the role he can provide. It's only going to get worse. His parents won't understand because they see him as stepping up from what men used to do and will take his side even in infidelity. His family literally told me they knew about the infidelity and said "so what" as if it meant nothing. This was a strict catholic family. I can't guarantee he won't stray but pushing him into doing more is not going to end well.[/quote]
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