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[quote=Anonymous]	I wouldn’t be happy if someone I was dating went out with other romantic partners.. for any reason.  Life will throw enough at you, some of which may make you question why you married that person, or if you should stay married, you don’t need to be with someone who will go out with women he used to date, no matter how noble he sounds. This guy is putting the comfort of other women ahead of you. Is this what you want? This isn’t a business relationship.  I have a feeling that if this didn’t bother you, you wouldn’t have posted.  Think about that, op.  This isn’t third grade, you don’t need to “put yourself in her place” not if he’s going out with other women while you… what exactly?

You don’t owe him anything, you aren’t married, you and he weren’t even exclusive, it’s not like he hurt himself skiing and you’d be a jerk if you went out without him, or he was off seeing his mom.He is very intentionally getting in touch with other romantic partners, setting up coffee dates (which are what many on this board suggest for a first date, and then going to meet these women for these dates. Why is this attractive to you? Why would you even entertain this logic or behavior?

I’d consider myself single, and if you hear from him again, and you want to see him, go ahead.  I don’t think I would, as another poster said, if he liked you, he would have ended it with these other women. The time to do that was before you all had your talk. 
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