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[quote=Anonymous]You’re 40. This is someone you are considering becoming partners with. Ask yourself these things. Do you trust him? Would you like him to trust you? if you had something in your life that was complicated would you expect the grace he’s asking for? is it fair to assume that you know the entire situation, or is it possible that he is being delicate with your feelings?

If you were  not exclusive it’s possible he was developing other relationships/intimate friendships  even if someone is not sleeping with another person there can be emotional attachments or high regard that merits a proper goodbye. I feel like your asking about it online was a way of dealing with your discomfort in this process, but also a bit knee jerk. I hope that people‘s responses haven’t clouded your own thoughts and feelings on this. I don’t know how I would manage it but it seems like some thing you should work out internally and in conversation with HIM instead of following the crowd. He sounds like a nice man that was prob too transparent. Maybe it would’ve been better if he said yes I’d like to be exclusive but I also need to have these conversations with these few people I’ve been dating. Not as dates per se, but as meetings. And I’m definitely in the camp of face-to-face is better than technology. Because we’re grown-ups. 
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