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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] As a man, I was in this position when I fell for my current LTR GF. I had a lot of irons in the fire and things lined up with different women. At the same time, I was stealing her away from her BF so she wasn't free and clear either when we first got together.

I could have done the right thing and shut it all down for her, in person, by text...whatever. But I didn't. I cheated on her with 4 different women in the first 6 months or so. 3 of them ONS and one a long-time friend-sometimes FB of mine.

This guy is being vilified by some for wanting to do the right thing and break it off with his previous relationships, or prospects. He's have been better of keeping his mouth shut. Now, if OP breaks it off with him, he doesn't have his bench to fall back on and has to start from scratch.[/quote]

You do not sound like any kind of prize.  I would feel sorry for your current gf, except she was cheating with you when your relationship started.  Chances are good that she has cheated on you, too.  Like attracts like.  In this case, it’s kind of the situation that everyone on DCUM always hopes for - two cheaters found each other.[/quote]Ohh, that hurts.  Or it would if it wasn't coming from some married person who considers themselves lucky if they get sex once a week with the same person they've been with for and will be with for decades.  Don't feel sorry for either of us.  I wouldn't trade my sex life for yours.  But you would if you could.[/quote]

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