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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: his text last night, “I think we should give this another chance…”

Me (tonight): "I'm feeling confused about what you actually want..."

Him: (a few minutes later): "You've been helping me figure it out...the last few months have been so beautiful!"

What does this even mean- is he being purposefully vague? [/quote]

seriously OP?  As a guy let me translate - he is trying to be suave about it, but he's essentially telling you that he wants to continue to sleep with you.  nothing more.[/quote]

OP: thank you. You're right. I wrote back and said I'd like to make a clean break. He wrote back and said he wanted to "keep building on what we have" but I didn't respond (and don't plan to respond anymore).[/quote]

Omg I was in a relationship like this.  The crazy making was brutal because it was vagueness, avoidance of the real issues, confusion, obfuscation, all wrapped up with “beautiful” words that made it seem like “wow, maybe I’m wrong about this guy.  He’s actually really great and I should give him another chance.”

You are correct to just end it. Sure, if you like the pretty words and are okay with being strung along, then to each their own. But you are spot on that this guy is not emotionally equipped to sit at the grown ups table.  Time to move on.  [/quote]

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