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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A big reason not to remarry in your 50's is your kids and grand-kids. My dad remarried in his early 50's. Yes he had his will/trust in place. However, those can be changed at anytime. She was younger and as his health changed he ended up putting her on all titles. I'm sure pressure from her, and again she was his only caretaker since we lived out of state. A major asset that was suppose to go to the kids all ended up with her after he died. In fact everything did except for a small life insurance policy she didn't know about. As in very small. I feel like a lot of people need to put their blood first before a outsider. She ended up with assets that were our mother's and father which is very sad, but quite common with second marriages. [/quote]

But did she actually take care of him? Did you? She was his WIFE. You sound entitled and immature.[/quote]

She married another person.  She didn't win the lottery.  No reason why she should keep the beach house or whatever.[/quote]

Exactly, but many people don't understand as they age they can be at that person's mercy. They can make sure estate plans are changed or I've seen where their own kids inherit. All these commercials for wills and trusts never mention how they can be changed. We were suppose to get a beach condo actually from our parents who owned it since the 70s. Wife number 2 got it and made sure of it. [/quote]

What was the surviving spouse supposed to live on? Did she contribute to the upkeep/taxes of the beach condo?[/quote]

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