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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The cousin acted badly. Expecting others to wait on her, do her laundry, not ever cook, hide in her room, have her DH work remotely from a house with 5 kids. She’s a spoiled brat or very depressed. But either way it’s not someone I would want to spend a vacation with. Even if it meant renting another house. One person in a group with a baby can’t just be acting like it’s an all inclusive resort.  
OP you need to speak with your parents first. But I wouldn’t be catering to this cousin on vacations. Traditions end. And the cousin ended it. She’s not going to change. [/quote]

No op ended it by her refusal to find a compromise.[/quote]

It seems like the compromise is that the cousin and her child and her DH are “guests” of the OP. I wouldn’t want to vacation with them. But maybe you would. I don’t think cousin will change. It’s not a vacation for me to take care of my family and hers also. [/quote]

The compromise would be : cousin and husband clean up after themselves.

Op drop the expectation that everyone wat he's her kids. And thinking she can control screen time for adults.

They all figure out what to do for meals maybe it's everyone chipping in on ordering in every day[/quote]

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