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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your complete lack of awareness as to how you have screwed your kid over is astonishing.[/quote]

Actually, I think OP knows but doesn’t care.

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You mean she should have thought ahead and strategically delayed any marriages in order to have her daughter apply from a lower income family?

People do that? Or get divorced to ramp up aid and welfare? Nice![/quote]

It sounds like they got married pretty recently. I would absolutely have the conversation with my future spouse that we would need to wait until the kid was through college if we couldn't find a shared way to get the kid through college, or have Dad claim the kid and set up a paperwork trail that dad was the primary parent.[/quote]

OP clarified that they got married when the girl was 12.  So, not a teenager, a young child.

I would not send my young middle school aged child to live with my ex to save money on college tuition, which is what would need to be done to set up the paperwork trail.  I could not fathom doing that. [/quote]

"Paperwork trail" is just that. No one is digging deep into actual custodial relationships. I understand not everyone would be comfortable with lying. I would go to my spouse first, but as someone who lied to get money for college when I was out of other options, I would also lie on behalf of my child.[/quote]

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