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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait wait wait....you’re having a csection, no time off for your husband, and you think you’ll be handling laundry and meals and breastfeeding and cleaning?! Oh OP you’re in for a world of hurt and your husband will come home to a debacle. Also, unrelated but now I’m curious, y’all Maga?[/quote] OP here. Yes. If will be hard, but many women do it. Many single moms, military women, women with multiple kids, etc., all do it. That is why I stocked up to make my life easier since my husband will only be helping me in the evenings. I’m also making freezer meals and we will likely be doing lots of takeout or Hello Fresh meals do make it easier. I will be doing during the day and night. We do have a house cleaner Rhys comes twice a week to do deep cleaning. I stated many times whoever said my husband worked out of the home was mistaken. He works from home. No we are not, but political stance has nothing to do with this topic. [/quote] But, you are not one of them, are you? It is beyond unacceptable that you should think of yourself as a single mom!! who has a husband and that you perceive your upcoming duties as on par with single moms! Or moms with DHs deployed somewhere. Apart from the fact that it is not at all the same being a SAHM with DH who makes good money, and you just said that he will be helping in the evening. I am wondering how many times did he tell you that he will not help you during the day? That would bother me, and I find it odd. If he is a nice guy that does help (which it sounds like he is not, not at all) is this bcs you are an utter nag during the day while he works, so he is trying to make sure he can still work and earn once the baby arrives, knowing that you are not in fact respecting his work time, or is it bcs he is a POS and verbally abusive if you even say a word during the day?[/quote]
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