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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like borderline personality disorder. Extreme fear of closeness causes a person to fear rejection so badly that they reject others preemptively. She is afraid you will see through her somehow. Just do not reply or attempt to engage and do not be intimidated into letting your feelings get involved. [/quote]
Mental health professional here.  You can’t assume BPD based on this info.[/quote]

She does sound like a b!tch though![/quote]

NP. She does not sound like a bitch to me. She sounds like she does not have time for more social interactions. She was being honest. She does not want to have to decline multiple invitations. I actually find it refreshing. Some women truly do not have time to do one more thing between work and kids. Give her a break.[/quote]

There is nothing refreshing or nice about being rude. Can you imagine everyone being 'honest' like that and commenting on every single thing they don't like about you? If the woman doesn't have time she can just say that - "Sorry, we are busy and life has been really hectic these days. Due to the pandemic, we have really closed our circle and are staying put. Hope you are doing well. We miss you and hope to see you on the other side of this"..or something like this. English isn't my first language so I am sure she could have come up with something nicer than this. She doesn't really deserve a break. Strop patronizing such people. It's not that hard to be civil. [/quote]

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