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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I was a first generation college student. I worked really hard in HS and got decent scholarships for college. I primarily had merit-based aid, with a small amount of need-based aid and then student loans. I went to an expensive school. Costs worked out roughly as such: 40-45 k total 25 merit-based aid 5k need-based aid (Pell grant) 2k work study 10k student loans I worked a lot in college and took out loans. It took me about 10 years to pay back the 40k and it never felt particularly onerous. I went to grad school via a program that paid for my degree entirely. In my husbands case he had a full ride to a comparable school for tuition and his parents paid 10k/year for his room/board. He also has advanced degrees but did a combined ba/ma program and transferred in with a lot of credits so it ended up not costing much extra. Our child is young but very bright and I believe she will be similarly high-performing in high school. We make more money than my family did, certainly, but we don't have dedicated college savings. I guess I am expecting my child to get a lot of merit-based aid and then figure we will be fine paying the rest. I don't get why we would save 300k or whatever when I fully expect her to get merit aid. And if somehow she fizzles out and doesn't get merit-aid, then I would expect her to go to a cheaper school. Am I missing something?[/quote] Yes, education is the one thing no one can ever take away from your child. I grew up poor like you I went to college with merit help. That is not as available as you think. I firmly believe in a college education (of course some kids trade schools totally fine as well ). Unlike my neighbors I do feel Community college is fine as a way to start. Most state schools also great. No reason in my mind to spend money on out of state schools. [/quote]
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