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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We're split basically 50/50 (Him: Fed 190k, me (woman) private sector: 200k) so this was basically never a question. Homeboy likes his vacations and fancy shoes, which is do-able on a dual-income and impossible on his alone. Luckily, he chose someone raised by a SAHM who was brought up to always work![/quote] My husband never thought this way. We made similar salaries when we met in our mid 20s. Soon after, he went independent and his salary tripled. I stayed with the Feds, but always have loved my job. I had great flexibility and eventually full-time WAH when my firstborn turned 1. He makes anywhere from $350-500k/depending on project. I make $190k. It’s been great. And my job allowed for the stable health benefits. We created our wealth, real estate portfolio together. 22 years into marriage, very proud of what we ha e created and that my boys see a mom working in a STEM field and a dad that is involved in family life- helps cook, clean, etc. actually, he’s better at household chores :).[/quote]
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