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OP, your daughter is a teen and won't want to spend her weekends with a traitorous father and and his moral-free mistress.

[b]Sign her up for a bunch of weekend activities.  ALso, since he is the typical male, he won't really want to take up his weekends with his kid. [/b]

My bet is 1 year from now, visits with dad and the vapid woman will be few and far between.[/quote]

No.  How childish.[/quote]

New poster here who is divorced with older kids who did well. This advice is SPOT ON. Her daughter needs to be kept busy with friends and role models and activities and support so she can feel normal and be shielded from broken-hearted/fragile moms, cheating dads, and mistresses.

I have no idea how the father will react, but this is very good advice. [/quote]

No  it is not good advice it is using your child as a pawn to get back at your ex You can dress it up and call it a million different things , but when it comes down to it, it's an attempt to alienate the child from her father because you ( rightfully) have hurt feelings.[/quote]

It is very good advice. The child needs to be kept busy to feel normal and maintain social contacts and stay as far away from grieving mothers and cheating fathers.

And I'm not the person who originally gave her this advice. I'm a divorced mother who is 100 percent against parental alienation. (And by the way, this isn't parental alienation at all. Please do not throw around that term unless you know what it means legally. You sound like an idiot.)

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It's terrible advice signing DD up for a bunch of activities, she's not already in on the weekends so she can't see her da, because gf might  be there  has nothing to do with the well being of a child. I might be an idiot ,but you're a witch  who is messing up her kids because she's angry. You being angry at your ex no matter how justified doesn't give you the right to try to destroy the  relationship  with the father.. It's the kid that will suffer. and you'll suffer in the future once your kid figures out what you did.   See a therapist,  bitch to your friends and  stop messing  up your kids.[/quote]

Bugger off. My kids are doing great, thank you, and they are all off to college. My divorce was a decade ago, and my kids have never been dragged into anything and they are certainly not messed up.

No one here said to destroy a relationship with a father. I said to keep kids busy during and after a terrible divorce like this one.

I don't know who you are accusing of being a witch, but I said the kid needs to stay busy and maintain social contacts and not be dragged into this mess. You need to learn how to read.

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I don't know what else happened in your life to make you be so nasty, and so bitter, but I hope you have a good evening.[/quote]

Have a fabulous evening!

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