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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a DD who decides not to accept a bid after going through the process. I think it came down to not wanting to have to compromise and FOCI on the one social group that made a big deal about mandatory socializing with certain frats. Her brother talked to her about what he was seeing from the frat perspective at JMU and DD took that into consideration. She is a little more on the artsy and academic side and was hoping to match with a sorority with that mix. She made a choice, decided not to settle for what she thought was the wrong bid and is moving forward. It was really hard to miss out on all the bid day celebrations and the ongoing initiation socials but she does have a taste of what it takes to make independent choices. I think she handled this much better than my 18 year old self.[/quote] Good for her. There are tons of kids who choose not to go Greek. She won’t have any problem finding her “people” the old-fashioned way.[/quote]
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