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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. About 400 young women dropped out of the rush process. There is nothing wrong with deciding that matches aren’t mutually desired. It apparently happens a lot.[/quote]

It's fine. However, there's been a lot of bitching on this thread about how cruel sororities are because they cut women from their parties list and the poor, poor potential new members are heartbroken.

The flip side is OP's daughter.  She decided that the groups who were willing to have her back weren't good enough for her.  "Not comfortable" is code for "I'm too cool/cute/smart to hang out with those women." They don't get into whatever chapter they've decided is the "top house" and they quit, because they think they're better than that, even though they haven't met those women for more than an hour or two and are going off the reputation and gossip that freshman share among themselves.  A lot of them don't even go through the process before making up their minds. It's deeply judgmental and shallow. [/quote]

This just shows how the whole process is a bit sick on both sides.[/quote]

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