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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like a good learning lesson for you and your son. Forgiveness, accepting family’s faults, moving on, etc.

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this ... it is more important to maintain relations with grandparents than to be right even though OP was/ is right to be upset. Grandparents come from another generation before widely available  therapy and brilliant agony aunts such as Carolyn Hax.

The [b]grandma apologized[/b] although it was not something she did often, the grandad berated her and offered to help rebuild and firm boundaries have been established .... now forgiveness and moving forward with love and legos is what is likely to serve the child best ... [/quote]

No, she wrote a note and wanted her daughter to read it her grandson... and only after OP I stated that she apologize.  If this is the tenor of the relationship going forward (adult is always right, will not apologize for mistakes, kid shouldn’t react even when upset that the adult did wrong), no, it’s not a healthy dynamic for the child.  Personally, I would make it clear that all contact would be cut between kids and my mother if a similar episode happens again.  My job is to protect and reach—I refuse to teach a child that they are at fault when someone else does something wrong.[/quote]

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