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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]There aren't any secrets: a sexless spouse clearly knows the normal spouse is going elsewhere.
And any lying is just to avoid affecting kids, which is the whole point of subject thread.
Sorry but no, there is no difference.[/quote]  no. Just, no. The moment your argument require your spouse to read minds, you lose. Use your Big Boy word and say what you want and what you plan to do. I you cant do that, you deserve the situation you are in. [/quote]
OK then if you insist on playing dumb (gee how should I know that men need sex? that when I consistently reject my husband, is it really a problem? that eventually he would go find it elsewhere?) this "play stupid" act works both ways too. How could he possibly know you expected him not to sleep with your sister? People can't read minds you know. If you didn't specifically tell him not to sleep with Claire (and Alice, and Donna, and Jane, and Mary....) well then I guess you must deserve it.[/quote]

Are you serious? This is crazy talk.

One requires understanding what and how much is acceptable to your partner whereas sleeping with ANYONE outside of your marriage is unacceptable unless you have an explicit agreement to be in open marriage.

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