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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP.

The "why's" don't matter. Just push forward.  Big picture Dad and Bio Mom and you are really to be commended for being on the same page.

Consider temp service....Dad or Bio Mom or you take her
to several temp services to fill out an application.

They will have her in a job in a day or so.  It might
be an office job or it might be retail. Have one of the
adults drive her around to the temp services so you
know applications get filled out.

If she moves back with Dad, bio Mom or grandfather
she needs to be out of the house and filling out
applications every day.  I'd tell her a minimum of
10 applications a day and to give you a list daily
of where she has applied.  Several applications is
not acceptable.  She needs to walk around the mall
and fill out an application at each place.

Then she can start filling out applications at the restaurants
in the area.  Every one starts somewhere in a job.

Then have her fill out applications at all of the hotels
in the area.  They are always hiring desk clerks.

School board has a lot of jobs that only require
high school education.

Then have her apply at the hospitals.  The hospitals
will train her to push patients around in wheel chairs.

If she stays with grandfather she needs a job too.

Once she gets the job going Dad and Bio Mom should
stand together that she pays some rent, cell phone
fee, cable fee etc to wherever she is staying:
Dad, Bio Mom or grandfather.  I wouldn't charge
too much, kind of a token amount to encourage
her to save up so she can move out with new friends
she meets.

Great job on Dad, Bio Mom and you standing together.

Be aware this situation is not uncommon on our society.
It seems to be more common in young males.
They want to game all night on the computer and not
work jobs.

God Bless, you have a big heart, thinking of you.

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