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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No here - my wife has an o every time.  We are creative and use toys as well.  She still is never ever in the mood and we do it once a month or so.

I know you find this shocking, but really some people lose interest over time and it's not anyone's fault.  You can google female low libido and up to half of married women report low or no desire after a while. It's just nature and yes there are low libido men too.

Whether all these marriages are better off with divorce or discreet affairs is another question[/quote

Would you be ok with scheduled sex if the wife indicates that she is willing to schedule sex since she loves you and wants to find a solution?  I hear some men say that is not appealing either and so will lead to cheating.  It seems like no matter what women do, it will never be enough for men because ultimately it’s just lack of commitment that leads to these excuses.[/quote]

That is basically my situation and its a tough one.  On one hand, I get that scheduling is an act of love and I should accept it.  But if she is never, ever in the mood and it's clear she really doesn't want to be there, it's not a good compromise.  Anymore than scheduling date night and he is on his phone checking sports and not listening to you.  Sex isn't about the orgasm, I can give myself one, it's about the connection.

And yes, I have offered a reciprocal open marriage, she isn't interested.[/quote]

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